Children Returned To Abuser After 5 Years
Back in 2011. I was awarded a 3 Year Full Restraining Order (listing ALL of my Children on it due to Proof of Child Abuse). Plus full legal and physical Custody.
It was to last until 2014, at which time, I needed to and DID request it to be Extended/Made Permanent.
This Order was violated multiple times. My Police Reports fell on deaf ears. No pursuit or enforcement was ever done. My children and I were NOT safe even with this RO in place.
2 months later. I’d had enough of “making reports”. Only to continue feeling unsafe and threatened. So, I left California.
- The order said nothing that I must stay living in California. I had in fact added in my Original petition the right to move back nearer to my own family and support system. Which wasn’t addressed.
And headed to New Hampshire 2011-2014.
Where I went right away to the court there and let them know why I’d moved there and asked to register my order there.
My Ex Had Located Us.
And found out our new address. Because the courts let him know! Despite the RO saying my address was to be kept protected and Confidential. It was made clear to the court. I was NOT trying to “kidnap” or “hide”. Only trying to Protect my children and myself. Since they themselves had Failed to do so.
After he located us, I tried once more to create a safe space for us.
From 2015-16, we lived in Michigan.
It was in April of 2016. After much back and forth with DA office and Court in Contra Costa County, California. That California decided to send DA agents to Michigan. To my children’s school. While I was at work. And take my children from school. Calling me at work to “let me know”. They had taken my children. Would return with them to California the next day. And hand them back to their/our abuser.
It is now 2020.
Going on 5 years. My children are being withheld by their abuser “father” from seeing me and speaking freely with me. He monitors any contact made and my children continue to feel afraid to speak to me about what goes on there.
Mind you. My ex has NO Legal status. As a U.S Citizen. (He is only a citizen of Mexico.) He has lived in California for over 15 years.
The court made it so my own visitation is “At Fathers Discretion”. So he feels enabled to behave and do however he wishes. Any time I have seen my children’s faces they look Depressed and on the verge of crying. They were once happy, smiling and doing great in school. All of that is gone. Replaced by unhappy shells who cannot even speak how they want to. And have no life outside of their cramped and filthy apartment. They are monitored, controlled, dominated and Depressed. All this and they are only 12 and 14 years old.
I still have the Original Restraining Order. I have proof that “Father” Stole and used my child’s Identity and had Fake ID and SS card made. (As he is not legally in the U.S).
I have proof of communication with the DA. COURT & POLICE, and their Failure to take action and Protect us.
I have proof of communication and contact with Senators, Governor, FBI and Immigration..all of whom pass the buck back down to the Police and Court.
I have emails, texts, and photo evidence. All of which are readily available if anyone can help.